Here is a message to school personnel "take your hands off the students!" I was recently at a school for a meeting for one of my clients. The meeting had gone well and I was exiting the building ready to get back to the office, when I was stopped in my tracks. I saw a young and small elementary student, who appeared to be a student with special needs, being "lead" by staff with his arms held behind his back. I also heard the offending staff saying to him "come on it's time to use the bathroom."
Seeing this sight caused my blood to boil, this student was much smaller then the staff that was manhandling him, and he was obviously in distress. I immediately said something to the staff, asking why they had their hands on the student, she retorted "who are you?" and I answered "a lawyer." The mention of the "lawyer" word (which I invoke sparingly), at least in the immediate instant, got the staff to unhand the student. I quickly explained that I was trained in the techniques that I assumed she was attempting to use and that the hold she was using was not one of the approved holds, but before she could answer I saw another, even smaller student being pulled even harder by the arm to go to the bus. At this point I was feeling like if I didn't get out of this school someone was going to have to restrain me! I calmly walked over to the new offending staff member and had a similar exchange.
